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only do what i want to do and what
feels right i trust my feelings i interpret any and all pain or discomfort as a sign there is something wrong |
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i very rarely say
"i'm sorry"
my mother told me when i was very young that there is nothing worse than a sorry man. i know now that this is a chauvenistic socially distorted view of the male, but it stuck with me from that day on... the last time i apologized for an action was in 1992 when i went into my fiance' purse snooping for things because of my own insecurity. she didn't catch me but i felt so bad that i confessed and apologized. in 1999 i said "im sorry to hear that" as an instinctive reaction to a friend who told me his father had passed. i did have a deep true sorrow at that moment. i will apologize if i am truly sorry for something |
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| i do not like or use the word mature in describing a human being. i do not feel how a person acts or behaves is dependant on age. though there are some insights and knowledges experience brings, i do not agee with a standard behavior depending on age. "act your age" "you need to grow up" this kinda thinking almost forces a person to behave a certain way as they age... |
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